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Writer's pictureBriesha Bell

Play 101: Unpacking Common Types of Kids' Play

Updated: Mar 16


Kid is hanging upside down as he performs a trick on a set of red monkey bars on the playground.

As an interdisciplinary field, play can quickly get complicated. In fact, the topic of play happens to be so nuanced that developmental psychologists, evolutionary psychologists, anthropologists, sociologists, and even neuroscientists study play...


Good thing you’ve stumbled here— I happen to be a Certified Play Expert with over a decade of play experience! This post will introduce you to common types of play and how each type of play supports childhood development. You'll leave here with a much clearer understanding of how kids play, along with toys that complement each type of play.


First, we'll go over a few main types of play: free play, guided play, and competitive play. During free play a kid can take part in many other forms of play. We'll look at some of the most common subcategories, including: dramatic play, physical play, pretend play, constructive play, nature play, and creative play. Next, we'll turn to guided play and it's subcategory, sensory play. Lastly, we'll go over competitive play and games.


Types of Play

✨Free Play

👑 Dramatic Play

🤸🏾‍♀️ Physical Play

🦖 Pretend Play

🏢 Constructive Play

🌱 Nature Play

🎨 Creative Play

✨ Guided Play

💦 Sensory Play

⚽️ Competitive Play

🎲 Games


 

✨ Free Play 

Child driving Little Tikes red car, another child is hitching a ride on top of the roof. Example of free play.

Free Play is centered on unstructured time for kids to play– it’s child-initiated and child-led, with little to no adult intervention. Free play is intrinsically motivated and encourages kids to try things out through trial and error,  


When a child engages in free play alone, they’re left to use their imagination with the toys or objects that they have open access to. Solitary free play can be easily confused with independent play. Independent play tends to involve more structured activities with less open range. 


Examples: Kids might make up their own games, create imaginary worlds, or come up with other elaborate ideas– but, they’re the ones in charge of what and how to play. Caregivers may supervise from a distance or stay within earshot of the child or children, only stepping in if necessary. 


Developmental Skills: Problem solving, language development, coordination 


Teaches: Autonomy, sharing, cooperation 

 
Toddler wearing a pink long sleeve shirt is engaging in dramatic play as she pretends to feed a baby a baby bottle in a high chair.

👑 Dramatic Play

Dramatic play involves kids exploring different roles and scenarios as they expand their understanding of the world and themselves. 


Examples: Dramatic play can look like a kid trying on dress up clothes; doing housekeeping tasks; caretaking of a doll or stuffed animal; cooking in pretend kitchens; playing doctor, house, school; etc. 


Developmental Skills: Speech and language; classification; executive function skills (in this case, planning out their play scenario); problem solving (stuffed animal is sick and child has to figure out a way to heal it)


Teaches: Creativity, imagination, collaboration


Toys or Supplies: Play kitchen; grocery store toys; dolls; stuffed animals; doctor's kit; playsilks


Note: It’s natural for little ones to reenact a wide spectrum of scenarios. This can include acting out their daily routines, performing scenes from a book or movie. Kids process through play, so it’s even typical for them to act out tough scenarios their families might be facing such as divorce or the passing of a loved one. 


 
Four year old girl is happily running outdoors in a grass yard as she engages in physical play. She is wearing long sleeved clothing.

🤸🏾‍♀️ Physical Play

Also referred to as active play, physical play is all about movement. It involves both fine and gross motor skills. 


Example: Physical play can look like a kid running around in open space; trying out yoga poses; dancing; climbing a structure; playing catch; jumping on a Nugget couch etc.


Developmental Skills: Focus and attention; coordination; muscle development; body and spatial awareness 


Teaches: Self-awareness; perseverance; resilience; stamina


Toys or Supplies: Open space for child to play; pikler climber; balance beam; balls

 
Two year old wearing a plaid thermal is engaging in rough and tumble play as he playfully tackles an adult. Child is sitting on the back of the adult who is lying on the ground smiling.

🙃 Rough and Tumble Play

Rough and Tumble play is a form of physical play that's important for learning limits and building social bonds. 


Examples: Kids engaged in a wrestling match or body tackle. While it’s nearly first instinct to want to break up rough and tumble play, it’s actually a developmentally appropriate type of play. Tickle fights are another example!


Developmental Skills: Social bonds; gross motor skills 


Teaches: Boundaries and limits; respect

 
Toddler child is engaged in pretend play on the floor of her home as she holds a barbie on a moped scooter.

🦖 Pretend Play

During pretend play, kids manipulate action toys or figurines to create elaborate play scenarios. Similar to dramatic play, pretend play provides children with a safe space to replay and process everything from daily routines to emotional events.


Example: Child narrates the life of a toy figurine 


Developmental Skills: Fine motor skills, storytelling, 


Teaches: Imagination, resilience 


Toys or Supplies: Action figures, animals, cars, figurines or toys that represent people

 
Child's hand is adding another block to his large Magna-Tile structure as he engages in constructive play.

🏢 Constructive Play

Unsurprisingly, constructive play is all about construction. During constructive play, a child is focused on building a structure.


In the early years (between ages 1 and 2) constructive play typically starts out as stacking, then kids learn the word “tower” and become adamant about building towers. After the tower phase (between ages 2 and 3), toddlers start getting more creative as their language and fine motor skills advance— suddenly they’re excited to show off their castle, digger, city, robot, and a myriad of other constructions. 


Example: Child attempts to build a structure using loose part materials or toy blocks


Developmental Skills: Spatial reasoning; sorting; classification; introduction to STEM; mathematical and problem solving skills; fine motor skills


Teaches: Patience; determination; planning


Toys or Supplies: Magna-tiles; wooden blocks; Duplo legos

 
Child's hand is shown reaching into a mud pile outside as she engages in nature play.

🌱 Nature Play

Nature play allows kids to connect with the outdoors and centers their natural curiosity. More and more research has begun to reveal that nature play is one of the most impactful types of play. 


Example: Has a kid ever bought you a mud pie? That's nature play in action! 


Developmental Skills: Intro to STEM; cause and effect; observation; classification; sorting 


Teaches: Respect and appreciation for nature; curiosity; mindfulness 


Toys or Supplies: Bowl for collecting nature finds; container or pail for water; travel-size spray bottle for watering plants

 
Watercolor paint trays and a bright watercolor painting made by a toddler are displayed on a table.

🎨 Creative Expression

Creative expression involves any form of artistic expression, kids often make or produce a final product through creative play.


The final product can physical or everlasting, like on a canvas or piece of paper. The final product can also be something a child is proud to show off or share but its' existence is only temporary-- like a dance they learned, a cookie they made for you, a song performed on an instrument.

 

🖌 Traditional Art

Two children hands are shown as they make art using watercolor paints and engage in Creative Play.

Keep in mind, most toddlers aren’t Monet prodigies. A lot of the art they create will probably be scribbles with crayons or random paint strokes until around age 2 and a half. But, creative play is less about the end product and more about the process of a child experimenting with colors and developing the muscles to control their utensils.


In case you needed to hear it from someone— you are not obligated to keep every piece of artwork a child brings home or makes for you. 


Example: Finger painting;


Developmental Skills: Fine motor skills


Teaches: Patience; planning


Toys or Supplies: Art kits; watercolor paint; water brush; blank notebooks; paint sticks; bleeding tissue paper

 

🥁 Musical Expression

Toddler wearing a pink sweatshirt is holding a mallet in each hand as she plays a wooden xylophone outdoors and engages in Creative Play.

Through musical expression, kids create sounds, rhythms, and melodies to communicate feelings, stories, or simply enjoy the joy of music. This form of play can also be a supportive aid in generating connections between the part of the brain that connects with emotions and memories.


Example: Child making up their own song or using household objects and/or instruments to produce sounds.


Developmental Skills: Fine motor skills; cause and effect; problem solving (how to hold a beat); rhythm; memory and repetition


Teaches: Self-expression; imagination; cultural awareness


Toys or Supplies: Egg shakers; maracas; repurpose an empty oats container for a soft hand drum; educational music artists for kids to listen to: Laurie Beckner Band; Raffi

 
A mother is engaging in guided play with her toddler son as she passes him a Duplo lego block. The toddler is looking down as he builds on his green lego plate. He is dressed in a construction costume and yellow helmet.

✨ Guided Play 

Guided play is child-led and inspired by the interests of a child. The adult's role is to provide scaffolding to meet a learning goal. This form of play falls along a spectrum between free play and games (which are structured). NAEYC refers to guided play as a form of playful learning¹.


Examples: Within a play setup designed to teach shapes, a grownup might see a kid playing various shaped blocks and then prompt them by asking a question like, "Do you think you could show me how to build a tower using only rectangle shaped blocks?"


Here's another example of guided play from The LEGO Foundation². Although the example is geared toward educators, any caregiver or play facilitator can apply a similar approach during guided play:

"Children building with blocks will often go as high as possible. Noticing this, an educator can suggest they compare which tower is taller, count how many blocks each tower has, and even use blocks as a unit of measure to compare heights and lengths of all kinds of objects in the class."

Developmental Skills: Problem solving; color recognition; sorting; classification; vocabulary; counting; Intro to STEM skills


Teaches: Adaptability (adjusting to given guidelines), specific academic or life concepts (like colors, shapes, numbers, or social scenarios)


Toys or Supplies: Shape sorters; puzzles; guided Lego kits

 
A toddler hands are shown as he holds a construction vehicle in a sandbox while he engages in sensory play.

🌊 Sensory Play

Sensory Play engages multiple senses at the same time. Activities under this category involve stimulating visual (colors, patterns), auditory (sound, noise), kinesthetic (movement, motion), or tactile (touch, feel, texture) components. You can also activate olfactory receptors through pleasing scents like cinnamon or peppermint.


Sensory Play falls under guided play for a couple reasons: (1) Young toddlers require supervision due to choking hazards and general safety. (2) Unlike the openness of free play, it's common for caregivers to set up sensory bins that revolve around a theme, season, or holiday. However, most kids ages 3 and up can do sensory play independently.


Example: Washing toys in a sensory bin; sand play; shaving cream mixing; sensory bottles


Developmental Skills: Fine motor skills; exploration of cause & effect; observation; sensory exposure


Teaches: Imagination; mindfulness; self-expression (through clay and play dough use)


Toys or Supplies: Play dough; clear sensory bins; small toy figurines

 
Two young kids are playing soccer with an adult wearing a pink shirt as they engage in competitive play.

✨ Competitive Play 

Through Competitive Play kids engage in games or activities with defined rules and a clear objective. This form of play often introduces little ones to the concept of winning or achieving a goal before others, as well as how to handle defeat.


Competitive play helps kids see competition in a positive light and motivates them to simply do their best. It also provides a safe environment for little ones to experience and manage a healthy amount of pressure.


Examples: Races; treasure hunts; obstacle courses; a game of Hot Potato; Soccer Shots


Developmental Skills: Gross motor skills; coordination; problem solving (how to win or why did they loose); memory (remembering the rules)


Teaches: Patience, rule following; leadership; sportsmanship; turn taking; self-regulation; collaboration; self-confidence


Toys or Supplies: Soccer ball; basketball; mini size football; goals or orange cones

 
A mom and her toddler son are engaged in a game of checkers. A sibling is observing their game beside them.

🎲 Games

Games allow kids to familiarize themselves with structure and rules. 


Examples: There are many forms of games: board games; card games; physical games (games that require movement), educational games (including games that require memory and observation); and guessing games to name a few.


Developmental Skills: Fine motor skills; memory; concentration; attention


Teaches: Self-regulation; turn-taking; patience; delayed gratification; mindfulness


Toys or Supplies: Candyland; Zingo; Lion in the Way; Twister; Pick Up Sticks; Memory card games

 

Citations:

¹ Jensen, H., Pyle, A., Zosh, J. M., Ebrahim, H. B., Zaragoza Scherman, A., Reunamo, J., & Hamre, B. K. (2019). Play facilitation: the science behind the art of engaging young

children (white paper). The LEGO Foundation, DK.


² Digital excerpt from book by NAEYC (National Association for the Education of Young Children): Developmentally Appropriate Practice in Early Childhood Programs Serving Children from Birth Through Age 8. 4th ed. (2022) Washington, DC

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